Why Not? – The Sky is the Limit
by Lorraine Hudson
Growing up can be beautiful, loving, positive, and fun, while making friendships that last a lifetime. But, yes I know growing up can also be frightening, lonely, without guidance, money or friends. Thank God I knew the beautiful part of life when I was growing up. It made me strong, confident and able to give back to others what had so comfortably been given to me. But, I also know sometimes even those on the short end of the great stick of life, can make it beautiful.
How do you know what you can or cannot do? It would take a professional to delve into the mindset of most of us, yet it seems pretty simple when you really think about it. Maybe some have it and some don’t. Maybe some of us, with a little push, can go far. Yet, some of us, even with a big kick, fold up immediately. Some of us demand it for ourselves, others could care less.
Years ago when I was applying for a good job in a big city, it was down to two applicants-me and a lovely lady with a Ph.D. We sat outside a room waiting to be interviewed by some brilliant, well-known executives in their field. I certainly did not have a Ph.D., but I thought, If I could get this job, I could learn so much, be more sophisticated, have direction in my career and gather an abundance of confidence. While we waited, Ph.D. Lady told me, “You should pack it up and go.” Because she said there is no doubt I will get this job, “hands-down.” I was floored because I had never heard such talk before in my entire life. She was called in for the interview first, and while I was waiting I just sat there and thought, It doesn’t matter what she and the executives are talking about or what a good impression she may or may not make, I am getting this job. My confidence soared. I took on my Lucille Ball demeanor, and I knew that I would be able to talk about my talents and skills with great strength. I went in for the interview and was offered the job on the spot. I felt like a million dollars, thinking, I knew I could do it.
So-hang in there. Good things can and will happen. My happiest days came from being a single mom. I knew I had to be the best at this job. Even though it was hard work and not an easy task, it was always worth everything I had to do for him. It was, without a doubt, the greatest job of my life. I saw my son grow, learn so many things, develop an amazing personality, get better looking each year, and heard him say, “Mom, I love you.” I never knew a love before that empowered me to guide, laugh, and give a future to a child. I knew in my heart that this young man would have a good life. We were a perfect twosome. It was worth it, and today my son has made for himself a great and successful life. I congratulate him. And I am happy.
